#DBCBookBlogs: Run Like A Pirate

This girl doesn’t run. I don’t mind a swift walk. But run? No. Thank. You. I will cheer my heart out for you and encourage you the whole way, but I won’t be running beside you.

So why in the world would I be pumped up to read Adam Welcome’s book, Run Like A Pirate? It’s obviously about running. Adam set an outrageous goal to run a marathon each month in 2017… yes, as in 26.2 miles. That kind of marathon. Not a watch every episode of The Office marathon (those are my kind of marathons). Adam talks about his journey through these marathons in the entire book. So, it’s a running book, right?

Wrong! So, so wrong! This book is about digging deep within yourself to achieve the seemingly impossible. If you want a swift kick in the rear, I’m going to recommend you go right to this link… go ahead… here it is again… click Buy Now. Get a copy of Adam Welcome‘s Run Like A Pirate and dig in. Good luck putting it down once you start!

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“When you want something bad enough, and you set the goals high enough, you’re bound to transform into something you’ve never been before.”

“When you wait,  you find reasons why you can’t. Why you won’t. Why you shouldn’t. We need to just do.”

“Remember your dreams and forget what other people say about them.”

“…the only person able to stop me was me. Don’t call me crazy. I just happen to like bold ideas.”

“I believe in you. I know you can do it. I know you will be successful. I know you will figure it out. If you start.”

“Do something that’s hard, something you never thought you could finish, and see what happens.”

“No more excuses and forget about your fear.”

“Many before you have done it. Now it’s your turn.”

Does any of that sound like a running book to you? Well, good… because it’s not. just. about. running.

This book is about setting goals, putting in the work, and achieving your dreams. It’s about the struggle. This book shows us that it is about the journey and not the destination. If nothing else, the quotes referenced above, Adam’s words in the book, are enough to make you think you’re the Kool-Aid man. You know what I’m talking about… the big red jug of Kool-Aid personified that runs through brick walls and says, “oh yeah” in the commercials. Yep, that’s pretty much how I felt the entire time I read the book.

What I love about this book the most is that I can relate to Adam’s commitment to a goal that others thought was crazy. My journey through #DBC50Summer this year was crazy according to others. Heck, there were times it was crazy according to me! Like Adam, there were times I thought about quitting, times I sacrificed sleep, times I wondered if the end would ever come. But then, like Adam… when the end came, I was emotional. So incredibly emotional. As I finished the 50th book, Jennifer Burdis‘s The EduNinja Mindset, I cried. I just let the tears flow. I’m not sure why I was so emotional, but it was one of those I really did this moments. Mentally, it was simultaneously exhausting and exhilarating to read 50 books in 101 days. But like Adam says,

“People are in charge of their lives and in charge of what they do with their time. Nobody is dictating how you spend your time, how often you do something, with what regularity, with whom, or when and where. If you’re pointing a finger and it’s not at yourself then something needs to change.”

The challenge here is the implementation. See, in Ditch that Textbook by Matt Miller, I said that I would let go of fear and just do it. In Teach Like A Pirate by Dave Burgess, I took away his quote, “It’s not supposed to be easy; it’s supposed to be worth it.” In Lead Like A Pirate by Beth Houf and Shelley Burgess, my implementation is to be relentless. For Stories from Webb by Todd Nesloney, I put my biggest dreams out there – I want to write a book. My plan was to wait until I finished each of the Dave Burgess Consulting, Inc books for #DBCBookBlogs, as well as the IMpress book blogs to begin writing.

Adam has convinced me… there is no more waiting. I can’t keep putting this off. Ultimately, I’d love to have it published. But for now, it’s for me. I am going to tell my story. Adam shares with us that saying we’re going to do something means nothing until we have the actions to go along with it. Anyone can say they’re going to run a marathon every month, but not very many actually do it. Adam followed through. He inspired me. I am going to follow through. I’ve talked and talked about this dang book. Now it’s time to write it. I’ve slept with the handwritten outline on the nightstand beside my bed since late May. It’s almost November. It’s time. No more finding excuses.

Thank you, Adam, for kicking my tail. Thank you for writing a book that is not just about running, but about the journey. You are 100% right when you said it’s not about the finish line. It’s about all the times between the start and the finish. For me, that means it’s not about a contract or a publisher. It’s about writing my story. Thinking about it that way takes the [majority of] the fear out of the equation. It’s still scary, but now I’m refocused and writing for me.

I’m going to do something big, something that makes me nervous. And I’m going to start now. Well…after these final two current DBC, Inc books are completed this weekend. Share what your big goals are in the flipgrid designed by Andrea Paulakovich! She and I copilot this space for the purpose of global collaboration on all DBC books! Find an accountability partner there! Follow along with the journey of others using the hashtag #RunLAP. Check out Adam’s website here and subscribe to his YouTube channel here. If you want a dose of Adam’s incredibly inspiring tweets, follow him on Twitter at @mradamwelcome! Here are some of my tweets about #RunLAP:

You know how I said a long time ago that I’ve read (or reread) the Dave Burgess Consulting, Inc books in the order they were released… well, I may have made one small exception… book 56 is nothing like any other book ever put out by the incredible powerhouse that is Dave and Shelley Burgess and I just couldn’t wait to read this book when it was released in July. The teacher in me is kicking in hardcore and getting ready to have so much fun with Dolphins in Trees by Aaron Polansky.

#DBCBookBlogs: Talk To Me

June 13, 2018 – I took an insane dive and “cannonballed in” (thanks, Tara) to beginning #DBC50Summer. I had no idea what it would look like, but just knew I wanted to get this crazy idea out there.

June 18, 2018 – I’m sitting in a hotel lobby enjoying a #tlap chat and see this tweet pop up in my notifications. I was blown away that someone had already picked up on the #DBC50Summer challenge and was eager to share what they learned from the Dave Burgess Consulting, Inc books as well. That someone was Andrea Paulakovich, who was then an instructional coach from Kansas, and is now Assistant Director of Learning Services.

June 19, 2018 – After exchanging links to our respective blogs, Andrea was ALL IN! It was her amazing idea to add in the use of Flipgrid only a few days after #DBC50Summer started.

The rest… as they say… is history. Andrea and I have chatted multiple times on Google Hangout and via FaceTime. This lady is amazing & her story is so powerful! I can’t wait to see what is in store for her because it’s going to be epic when it happens!

From this tweet, #tlapsisters was born, ha! Fast forward to August 26 – Andrea sent me a DM about co-writing a blog as we were both reading The Wild Card by Hope & Wade King. Knowing that I didn’t have the ability to add anything else to my plate, and I didn’t want to let her down, I suggested that we wait until #DBC50Summer was over and instead we co-author a post on book 54, Talk to Me by Kim Bearden.

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We set a date to finish the book and Andrea created this incredible Google Doc with all of her notes and ideas for our blog post. (She takes the most detailed notes of anyone I’ve ever seen; further proof that she’s superwoman.) I hopped into the doc last night and I swear, magic happened. Writing side-by-side, literally, in the Doc was incredible. Seeing Andrea’s thoughts form on the page was inspiring and I highly recommend you go check out her other #DBCBookBlogs on her website! Andrea put her amazing artistic spin on our thoughts and created this magazine on yumpu.com (super cool tool, by the way).  You can see the final product below, or use this link if the embedded file is giving you trouble. (You can also look at the PDF of the magazine.)

https://www.yumpu.com/en/embed/view/Eb8kA7UH5gBI6ztc

Didn’t Andrea do a terrific job putting this all together?! I am constantly blown away by her! What a pleasure to co-author this blog with my friend! (Go see Andrea’s story behind Talk to Me on her website here!)

I thoroughly enjoyed reading Talk to Me by Kim Bearden! I felt as though she reached through the pages and hugged me multiple times. She gives practical advice on effective communication, not just within education, but for every relationship. Her words about sharing appreciation and validation with others reminded me so much of Beth Houf and Shelley Burgess‘s Anchors of Appreciation in Lead Like A Pirate. I know that I appreciate others, but do others know that I appreciate them? My implementation plan is to show as often and outwardly as possible that I appreciate actions and people as those moments come along.

Follow along with the conversation using the hashtag #talktome and check out Kim’s website here. For more information on the Ron Clark Academy in Atlanta, GA, check out their website here. Finally, head over to the DBC, Inc website and preview the book for yourself! I know you will love it! After you’ve bought and read it (because you will), share your thoughts on the flipgrid co-piloted by Andrea and me. This collaborative space is available for anyone around the world to share their thoughts on all DBC books!

Book 55 in the DBC, Inc line is Run Like A Pirate by Adam Welcome (yes, that Adam… from Kids Deserve It – woo hoo). This book is going to get me to the core; I can already tell. I believe it’s going to be just the kick in the tail that I need to get me to stop talking about my dreams, and actually taking steps to make them come true. And I’m scared. to. death. I’ve heard it said that if your dreams don’t scare you, they aren’t big enough. So now, I’m going to read his book and do all I can to make my dreams a reality.

#DBCBookBlogs: Balance Like A Pirate

I was intimidated when I started this book. I know I’m imbalanced; I can feel it. I think you can feel it too, when you’re out of balance. If not, take some time to listen to your body.

My shoulders and neck are stiff. My head hurts. I’m not sleeping well. I eat more junk food. My house becomes cluttered. My kids argue with one another and I become very short-tempered. I find myself planning for the next day rather than the next week. Have you been there? Of course you have. If you’ve not, you’re lying. Yep – I just called you out.

We’re educators; imbalance is a way of life. Thankfully, Jessica Cabeen, Jessica Johnson, and Sarah Johnson share their stories in the third Lead Like a Pirate guide book, Balance Like A Pirate.

I knew going into this book that it would be conviction central, and sure enough… I’m riddled with guilt right now. Jessica-squared (this is really how I remember them) and Sarah share stories of their own imbalances, which help with the guilt. They assure us that we will never be at a mathematical balance, where we are exhibiting a 50-50 relationship balance between work and home. In fact, the authors contend that there aren’t only two areas in which to focus. There are four. These are as follows:

  • Personal – Who are you? Outside of your job, what titles do you hold?
  • Positional – What is your role at your job? What pays the bills?
  • Professional – How do you continue to grow and learn your job?
  • Passions – What gets you out of bed?

I took time while reading to dive into these quadrants and define them in my own life. There are some excellent activities the authors share to help us think through where we currently are in our balance, and where each piece of ourselves fits in the quadrants.

Personally, I am a wife, mother, caregiver of a child with Type 1 Diabetes and high functioning autism, daughter, sister, aunt, granddaughter, niece, cousin, Christian, nursery worker, and friend. Positionally, I am a digital learning coach and a media coordinator. I work with teachers and students in my school, as well as partnering with administration to bring about meaningful and sustainable change in our school. I also lead district and state level professional development. I serve on our ISTE state affiliate board of directors and am a Future Ready Thought Leader in Instructional Coaching. Professionally, I read books and connect with my PLN to provide my own growth. #DBC50Summer and #DBCBookBlogs have been the main instrument for growth, in addition to Twitter chats. I enjoy attending edcamps. I attend state level conferences and would like to attend a national or international conference in the near future. Finally, my passions include reading and writing, watching football, and connecting with others.

Like many of you, I’ve got a lot on my plate, so to speak. I drop the ball every day on at least one of these quadrants. I’ve got to get better at this balancing act, and this book was exactly what I needed to help me make small steps to see big changes in each of these areas.

There is so much I enjoyed about reading Balance Like A Pirate. The practical advice at the end was definitely the highlight for me. As a believer in the quote from the Captain himself, “Inspiration without implementation is a waste,” I was thrilled to see the final section devoted to ways to readily implement the ideals and philosophies held within the pages of the book. I will be implementing many of these in the near future. My official implementation plan for this one is a bit different from the ideas given at the end of the book.

When I started my weight-loss journey over a year ago, the first thing my doctor suggested that I do was write down everything I put into my body. If I drank water, write it down; if I put barbecue sauce on my chicken tenders, write that down, etc. I thought this was lame, but realized that I weighed more than I had when I was 9 months pregnant with my youngest daughter and I knew I was in a spiral into depression. So… I documented it all with my FitBit app. What I quickly realized was that I was gaining weight because I was eating nothing but junk. I wasn’t eating much at all, but when I did it was a Snickers bar and Mountain Dew. I was drinking nearly a liter of Mountain Dew every day and absolutely no water. We would go out to eat every night and I would load up on all the starchy vegetables and leave the good stuff out. I would eat a half of a bag of Doritos at 8:00 at night, then wonder why I couldn’t rest well. It was bad, y’all. If I hadn’t written it all down, if I hadn’t taken that step to become aware of what I was doing to myself, I’m not sure that I would be able to tell you that my weight-loss journey has been a huge success. I have lost over 40 pounds in a year and feel better than I’ve felt in a long time. Granted, I’ve gained some of it back in the past few weeks due to excessive amounts of time reading and blogging (ahem, imbalanced much?!), but as part of my EduNinja Mindset implementation plan, I will be getting up early at least 3 days a week to exercise in the mornings. (This hasn’t gone so well yet, but I will get better.)

With this in mind, my implementation for Balance Like A Pirate will be very similar. I will take a pulse of my commitments and my time in each quadrant by writing down what I am doing each day. Every 30-60 minutes, I will take a short pause for reflection writing down which quadrant I have been focused on. If there have been multiple quadrants addressed during that specified time, I will note that. I will do this for at least one week, possibly longer, until I see a clear picture of where I currently stand in the quadrants. I’m not sure which quadrant I’m spending the most time in right now, but it is clear that my personal quadrant is being neglected the most.

If you’re a parent and an educator, you likely feel the same convictions I do when it comes to our own children. My daughters get the worst version of me.  They unwillingly make so many sacrifices because their mom is a committed educator. They need me to be a committed mom. I come home exhausted from answering a million questions, dealing with middle school drama, and pouring my heart out for my students, and there’s just not a lot left when we get home. After working until 4:30-5:00 every evening, we come home to quickly do homework, grab something quick to eat, go to whatever ball practice/game is on the schedule for the night, then come home for showers and bedtime. They deserve better from me. This much is evident without even taking a pulse on where I currently am in my imbalance. Once I see where the majority of my time is being spent, I can better adjust using ANCHOR Goals (described in this book, it’s the equivalent of a SMART goal for balancing our lives) without eliminating my time in the quadrants altogether. I look forward to seeing what comes from my time with this book. I am excited to spend more time with my family, but fearful of what that will do to my professional growth. I’m not going to lie, I’m looking forward to sleeping again, ha!

Also… that freaking out chart… that thing is on point! You’ve got to see this thing in the book! It’s pretty much perfect!

Head on over to the Dave Burgess Consulting website to preview this book! You can follow along with others going on this journey working toward achieving a better balance using the hashtag #BalanceLAP and following Jessica, Jessica, and Sarah. You may also check out their websites! Jessica Cabeen’s is here, Jessica Johnson’s is here, and Sarah’s can be found here. Jessica Johnson’s website has a list of podcasts she has appeared on, as well as her own podcast, Principal PLN. Sarah also includes podcasts and publications here. I highly recommend purchasing this book for yourself and for a friend. Being sure that both of you have a copy gives you the opportunity for immediate accountability partners who will speak the same language. Oddly enough, my accountability partners are people I’ve never even met; you all. You are my accountability partners in that you pushed me to finish #DBC50Summer, and you are currently encouraging me to follow through on the implementation plans I created for that, and the rest of the #DBCBookBlogs and you may not even be aware that you’re inspiring me to complete this journey. But you are. And I appreciate that. Continue to follow along with me. There are only a few books left (I’m sure more will be coming very soon, but at least for now I’ll be caught up).

As always, Andrea Paulakovich (creator of the flipgrid for all DBC, Inc books) and I invite you to share your thoughts on the flipgrid for Balance Like A Pirate.

The next book is Kim Bearden‘s Talk to Me. I’m beyond excited about this one. I have heard that I’m going to love it, so I’m eager to see if it will live up to the hype from my dear friend who suggested it. Also – there’s a special something in store for this blog!!! Stay tuned!